Wednesday, August 13, 2025

Rewilding Our Hearts: Building Pathways of Compassion and Coexistence by Marc Bekoff

 


 "If you don’t know how to fix it, please stop breaking it…You are what you do, not what you say. What you do makes me cry at night…Please make your actions reflect your words.”

                    -Severn Cullis-Suzuki

  It has been heartbreaking to come across so many dead wild animals on the highway lately. It is sad to watch so many people racing on the highway without empathy for the non-human animals who share the earth with us. The cruelty of such an act is a reflection of the cruelty that exists on so many levels in our society. These dead animals on the highway remind me of how cruel some human beings are to others…

  Seeing these animals in such a state of neglect and abandonment is disheartening, and it prompted me to search for the book Rewilding Our hearts by Marc Bekoff, which I meant to read years ago, and I kept postponing the read until now.

    Even though it was published eleven years ago, Bekoff’s words continue to be relevant, inspiring and edifying.

  Marc Bekoff is a professor emeritus of ecology at the University of Boulder, Colorado, and he has been a researcher of animal behavior for decades; Bekoff explains that animals have complex emotions and social lives. Animals grieve and have families, just like we do.

   Many humans like to believe that only humans have emotions and feelings, but this is not true. Besides, our human “uniqueness” does not give us the right to destroy everything we touch. Basic ethical principles should be taught to children in schools.  

   The toxic attitude of believing that humans have the right to destroy everything because they consider themselves more “intelligent” and have a right to do so has become normalized in many people’s minds to the point that debating this has become the starting point of irrational arguments to support irrational behaviors and poor choices that do not align with values of respect and fairness.

   Severn Cullis-Suzuki was only nine years old when she launched the ECO (Environmental Children’s Organization). When she was twelve years old, she and a group of her peers raised funds to attend the United Nation’s Earth Summit in Rio de Janeiro in 1992 to urge world leaders to talk less and do more. Here’s her amazing speech:

         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJJGuIZVfLM


   If we take a moment to reflect on the word “eco”, we can awaken our awareness to the fact that both the words “economy” and “ecology” share a common root: “eco” means “home” or “habitat” in Greek. With this in mind, we should fully commit to make sustainable choices that make our home --the earth-- the place where we can coexist respectfully with other beings, where we must treat the water, air and soil with care and respect.

  I can summarize this idea by using a simple quote by Chogyam Trungpa:

 “When human beings lose their connection to nature, then they do not know how to nurture their environment or how to rule the world—which is saying the same thing. Human beings destroy their ecology at the same time that they destroy one another. From that perspective, healing our society goes hand in hand with healing our personal, elemental connection with the phenomenal world.”




  Hope without action is just a word. Hope requires actions that align with ethical choices and behaviors. Marc Bekoff’s book helps us to understand the multiple ways in which we can make this possible.

 

 If you enjoyed this post, you can also visit my writing on the following books:


Second Nature by Jonathan Balcombe


Why Dogs Hump and Bees get Depressed by Marc Bekoff.

 

   Find ways of taking action here:

 

https://www.idausa.org/take-action/