Friday, March 22, 2024

I am Bunny: How a "Talking" Dog Taught Me Everything I Need to Know About Being Human

 


“Trust creates peace.” (Anonymous quote).

 Trust is the foundation of every healthy relationship. Relationships with dogs are not the exception to this rule. Genuine friendships with dogs are based on trust and communication.

 Alexis Devine has always been eager to do her best to optimize communication with her adopted dogs. In a delightful friendly style, Alexis shares her personal journey with Bunny, a dog she adopted three years before publishing her book. Alexis’s curiosity, kindness and sense of wonder led her to seek new ways of understanding Bunny. For this reason, she resorted to the use of buttons that her furry friend accepted with enthusiasm; Bunny uses them to express herself. These buttons play recorded words when pressed.

 Alexis Devine’s exploration eventually led her to connect with researchers who study dog behavior, and now she is collaborating with their work. Interestingly, the choice of buttons kindles conversations with her dog, interactions that reveal fascinating insights into Bunny’s thoughts, emotions and feelings. This kind of communication shines a light on the ways Bunny perceives the world around her. If you’ve ever wondered whether dogs have night dreams, you will learn about this topic in her book…



  In addition to the anecdotes and dialogues she shares, there are relevant snippets of Alexis’s life intertwined with Bunny’s experiences. Alexis shares aspects about herself, vulnerabilities and challenges she had to contend with, and a personal adventure of self-discovery, growth and transformation. She also carves out interesting reflections about life in general, inviting the readers to appreciate situations from refreshing perspectives.

 There are a few chapters about research on animal communication interspersed throughout her book. I chose to read these chapters separately because I did not like to be distracted from the story of Alexis and Bunny.

 Alexis Devine is an artist and entrepreneur from Seattle, Washington. She is also part of an ongoing canine cognition research study at the Comparative Cognition Lab at UCSD. “Her goal is to further our understanding of the power of connection and importance of empathy, meeting her dogs where they are and understanding them on their terms to facilitate trust and promote an environment that supports them as the incredible creatures they are.”

 You can learn more about Alexis Devine and her experiences with Bunny by listening to this brief interview:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Id6jvQPzEQo

 

 There are various photographs of Bunny and Alexis in this book, but they don’t reveal the essence of their unique connection. Most pictures showcase Alexis’s unconventional clothing style and makeup. There is nothing wrong about an artist marketing her art, but we somehow miss out the energy of the bond between Alexis and Bunny in those images. On the other hand, the heartwarming photos of her parents spending time with Bunny truly reveal the spirit of their relationship:

 


  Books that focus on communication with dogs are of special interest to me. I experience a deep connection with my own furry friends. Words can hardly describe the bond that blooms when we care deeply for them. Every moment with them is a precious gift that I don’t take for granted.

 

Have fun with these supplementary links!

 

https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/dogs-that-saved-lives

 

https://www.cnn.com/2024/03/13/health/playing-with-dogs-affects-brain-waves-study-wellness/index.html

 

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9534402/

 

Tuesday, March 12, 2024

Israel: A Simple Guide to the Most Misunderstood Country on Earth

 


  On October 7, 2023, one of the worst terrorist attacks in history took place. Peaceful communities of the Kibbutzim close to Gaza were brutally attacked. The massacre of peaceful people was unprovoked and unexpected. The terrorists infiltrated Israel by air, sea and land. A peaceful music festival was also the target of the invasion of the Hamas terrorists who slaughtered, burned, raped, and tortured innocent civilians in addition to taking hostages. Hamas launched over five thousand rockets from Gaza to Israel. Some of the people who suffered the devastating consequences of the savagery of October 7 were Holocaust survivors.

   Despite the barbarism and cruelty of the attack by Hamas and the fact that their goal is to destroy Israel and exterminate Jews, some people still insist on giving legitimacy to this group. Hamas has refused to surrender and continues to keep 134 hostages. Hamas cannot even provide a list of the hostages’ names. Hamas is a terrorist organization that ruled Gaza for several years, a group that is responsible for massacring its own political opponents and for implementing Sharia law. These monsters videotaped themselves committing their atrocities. Yet I often come across comments denying the October 7 attack. This does not surprise me because Holocaust deniers do the same. And how can anybody support the brutal attack of October 7?

   Antisemitism had been on the rise before October 7 (check supplementary links at the bottom of this post to refresh your memory) and let’s make clear that criticizing Israel’s government is not considered antisemitic.

  I often come across distorted narratives about Israel, hateful rhetoric and inappropriate labels that do not reflect the history of the country whose land is the size of New Jersey.

 Before October 7 my knowledge of Jewish culture was very limited. I did not know much about the history of Israel either, so I felt compelled to read about her. I never believed the misinformation nor the conspiracy theories that erupt from both extremes of the political spectrum.

  Education and knowledge are the best vaccines against ignorance and hate, so I am very thankful for Noa Tishby’s book: Israel: A Simple Guide to the Most Misunderstood Country on Earth.

  When Noa Tishby migrated to America, she was shocked to find that people did not have a clue about Israel. Yet they felt confident about expressing their strong opinions.

 Noa Tishby’s book does not shy away from difficult topics about Israel. Her account is balanced, thorough and supported by facts. I appreciate her honesty. Reading this book has been a captivating journey into Israel, into its past, present and into a dream for a future of peace, collaboration and understanding. Her book confirmed some of my perceptions and broadened my perspectives. It helped me to gain a deeper understanding of the context of the Israel-Hamas war.

 Noa Tishby examines five thousand years of history, and she does so in a conversational style that does not bore the reader. I read and reread the book feeling I’m having coffee with a good friend, enjoying a pleasant conversation. I verified some of the facts because I was left speechless many times. For example, I did not know that in December 1945, five months after the end of World War II, the Arab League’s collective action was to establish a formal boycott of the Palestinian Jewish community’s products. Soon after the Holocaust, which massacred six million Jews and stripped them of their possessions, homes, citizenships, and loved ones, the Arab League thought it was a good idea to boycott their products. The movement to boycott Jewish goods continued after the creation of Israel. You can also learn a lot about the misinformation and manipulation of the BDS, and, ironically, how their irrational hateful actions hurt Palestinians.

 During World War II a prominent Muslim religious leader called Haj Amin Al-Husseini traveled  to Germany to meet Hitler and make agreements related to the annihilation of Jews. He collaborated with Hitler’s Nazi regime.

  On November 29, 1947 the UN established a partition plan for the establishment of a Jewish State and a state for the local Arabs (who were not even called Palestinians yet). Israel accepted, but the Arab world rejected it. The following day the Arabs declared war on Israel. Israel won this war. Palestinian leaders have refused peaceful agreements several times because they believe that Israel should not exist. The Arabs who stayed in Israel, on the other hand, integrated into Israel’s society as per the proclamation of the Declaration of Independence of Israel, which is committed to ensure equal rights to every citizen irrespective of their gender, race or religion. Let’s review the current structure of Israel’s society:

  The population of Israel at the start of 2020 was 9,246,000 people. 74 percent are Jewish, 21 percent are Arab, and 5 percent identify as Other. Among the Arab population, 84.8 percent are Muslims, 7.4 percent are Christians and 7.8 percent are Druze. Within the Jewish community, 45 percent describe themselves as secular, 25 percent as traditional, 16 percent as religious and 14 percent as ultra-Orthodox or Charedi. The military service is compulsory in Israel, except for the Charedi people, who are exempted due to their religious beliefs.

  All citizens of Israel have the same rights. Did you know, for example, that Arab Israelis can become members of the Supreme Court and legislators? Arab Israelis vote, get elected, protest, and participate in the democratic system, working alongside their fellow citizens to make a change. They can vote and be voted for, something that does not happen in Gaza, where the people are under a savage authoritarian regime. (However, Israel gets the label of being an Apartheid state by those who have no clue).

 “According to a survey done by professor Sammy Smooha from the University of Haifa, 77.4 percent of Arab Israeli citizens living in Israel said they do not wish to move to a Palestinian state should one be formed…” People in Israel do have the right to protest, and they do so.

 There is no Sharia Law in Israel. Women have equal rights. Now you may be wondering what Sharia Law is. When the attack by Hamas took place on October 7, 2023, Gaza was under the control of Hamas, and to understand Hamas you need to understand the Muslim Brotherhood. She explains this clearly:

“The Muslim Brotherhood is a Sunni Islamist movement that originated in Egypt in 1928 and aims to implement Islamic law, known as Sharia, all over the world, starting with the Middle East. Sharia law is not a preferred way of living if you like democracy, freedom, equality, or human rights of any kind, let alone if you are a woman or a member of the LGTBQ community. Under Sharia law, for instance, a woman who is raped cannot testify against her rapist. If she wants to complain, she needs to produce four male witnesses in order for a “court” to believe she was raped. If she does not produce these four male witnesses, she will be convicted of adultery, which is punishable by death. The rapist, on the other hand, can have his conviction dismissed if he chooses to wed his victim. Other pillars of Sharia law include: a husband can beat his wife, for she is his property, as clearly stated in the Quran, chapter 4 verse 34, homosexuality is punishable with death by stoning; petty theft is punishable by the literal amputation of the hand; and anyone who apostatizes or speaks ill of, criticizes, or denies Islam, Muhammad as the only true prophet, of course.” Reading this brought to my mind the case of Salman Rushdie who was stabbed in America by a religious fanatic.  Make sure you learn what the Ayatollah in Iran wanted to do to him for expressing himself as a writer. This is what we should stand up against. This is why democracy matters, and it is a good reminder of the need to prevent any kind of theocracy from gaining power in America. By the way, a theocracy of any kind in the United States of America would be unconstitutional.

  Noa had three grandmothers, and you may wonder how this is possible… to decipher the enigma I will let you read the book, because this information reveals the piece of a puzzle that can help to understand so much about life in Israel, how such an experience can shape somebody as a person.



  I was spellbound by the experiences of Noa Tishby’s grandparents. In 1918, when her Russian grandmother was only 11 years old, the Bolsheviks took over Russia. The Bolsheviks promised equality for all in Russia. Fania Artzi, her grandmother, was excited. Everybody believed in the revolution, but they would soon get disillusioned. The Bolsheviks did not believe that Jewish people deserved equal rights, so the Jewish people were persecuted, imprisoned, forced to work in labor camps and deported to Siberia. Noa’s grandmother and her family were desperate to find a place where Jews were accepted, where they could work hard and thrive; they wished for a society in which justice, peace and gender equality would prevail.

  Noa shares notes from her grandmother’s diary, something I find fascinating. It must be so special to hold one’s grandmother’s diaries in your hand and to be able to share them with the world. Fania arrived in Israel in the year 1925. Let’s make this clear: they settled in Israel without displacing anybody. I encourage you to read this carefully to understand how they coped to deal with the challenges of their surrounding environment…

“In 1925 she landed on the shores of Jaffa in 1925. She and her parents and siblings took a ship from Odessa in hellish conditions. They got robbed, and were starving, resorting to eating dry crackers they would first soak in hot water to remove the worms.” You will learn more about this from her book.

 In 1926 she lived in tents and grew food with a group called the Women’s Farm, a group of women who wanted to prove they did not need men.

“On one stormy night a massive wind blew their tents away and the girls were left soaked in water and exposed to the elements. They were completely drenched in the dark, laughing their hearts out.” After a couple of harsh years living in tents and growing whatever she could on the land, Fania had an offer to join the kibbutz of Degania, where she found her home and met her future husband. They had to work hard, but they also had fun.

“My grandmother, the aspiring farmer, volunteered for the vegetable garden and she became one of the first new members of the first kibbutz in Israel.”

 It is impressive to learn that these people made the desert bloom. They did not have enough water, so they had to be ingenious enough to figure out how to irrigate their crops. Resilience, resourcefulness, innovation and hard work paid off. The Jewish culture has so much to offer the world.

  There are many amazing stories of collaboration, inspiration and understanding between cultures in this book. I love the story of the restaurant that served delicious hummus… and so many others.

Let’s dream of a world without hate, one in which we can all learn from each other, one in which we can focus our energy on making life sustainable for all.

  There are still 134 hostages in Gaza. Where are the hostages? Hamas refuses to surrender and to establish peaceful negotiations with Israel. In fact, they have no intentions to peacefully negotiate and they use their own people as human shields. They consider them martyrs, and they want to have as many casualties as possible to gather international support while their wealthy leaders hide in comfortable places. Hamas is backed by the Iranian government, which looks down on democratic principles and believes in Sharia law.

  It is deeply disturbing to see how the rape and mutilation of Israeli women has been ignored and treated with disbelief. There is evidence that showed that the rape of women on October 7 had been meticulously planned by the terrorists who invaded Israel. Many of the women are no longer present to defend themselves. It is our duty to speak up for them and for every woman and man who continues to be held hostage in Gaza. We will continue to ask for their release. No matter how hard they try to silence us, we will continue to demand justice and security.

  Noa Tishby’s book shares facts, inspiration and knowledge. I highly recommend her book, and let me remind you of Aldous Huxley’s quote: “Facts don’t cease to exist because they are ignored.”  Her book is a unique masterpiece that instills hope and a strong desire for peace, collaboration and a constructive future together.

 

Supplementary links:

 

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/israels-innovative-role-combatting-climate-change-advancing-oron

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-68534027

https://jstreet.org/press-releases/j-street-celebrates-and-reflects-on-israels-milestone-75th-anniversary/

 

https://www.adl.org/racists-converge-charlottesville

https://www.newsweek.com/200-rockets-and-mortars-fired-israel-one-day-where-outrage-1027416

 https://ctc.westpoint.edu/the-road-to-october-7-hamas-long-game-clarified/

https://theconversation.com/antisemitism-has-moved-from-the-right-to-the-left-in-the-us-and-falls-back-on-long-standing-stereotypes-215760

https://thehill.com/opinion/international/4250708-putins-fingerprints-are-on-hamas/

https://thehill.com/opinion/international/553873-why-does-the-hard-left-glorify-the-palestinians/

https://www.cnn.com/2023/12/11/middleeast/qatar-hamas-funds-israel-backing-intl/index.html

https://www.politico.com/news/2023/11/26/christie-trump-blame-rise-antisemitism-00128609

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aB5JpJTdfBA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpnvUIcvNUE


https://www.cnn.com/2024/03/23/opinions/israel-gaza-antisemitism-anti-zionism-purim-weiss/index.html


 https://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/map-of-the-u-n-partition-plan

 

https://www.reuters.com/world/middle-east/poll-shows-palestinians-back-oct-7-attack-israel-support-hamas-rises-2023-12-14/