Tuesday, June 4, 2024

Rise and Shine, Benedict Stone by Phaedra Patrick

 


 Benedict Stone wanted his wife to come back home. Estelle moved out for a while, and Benedict did not know if she would return home. When somebody knocked on his door one night, he thought it was Estelle. He was wrong. The person at his doorstep was Gemma, his sixteen-year-old niece, whom he had never met in-person. Gemma had traveled from America to England to visit him for the first time… and she was determined to stay with him.

 Benedict owned a Jewelry store he had inherited from his parents who died unexpectedly in Sri Lanka after a tsunami struck the region, when they were on vacation. After the tragedy, Benedict took the responsibility of raising his younger brother, Charlie. Charlie was Gemma’s father, but he and Benedict had not been in touch with each other for eighteen years. The reason for their estrangement is not revealed until later in the book, so I was intrigued to understand the source of the conflict between the two siblings.

  Benedict had a special interest in gemstones. In his attic he kept a journal his father had crafted in which he described the history of each gemstone and the meanings assigned to them. The discovery of this journal mesmerized Gemma. Her enthusiasm and interest in gemstones awakened in him a talent for crafting more creative designs. Her presence brought new ideas, triggered changes in his lifestyle and sparked the excitement of  new beginnings.

  Benedict was also determined to inspire his wife to return home. I was about to type the words “win her back,” because those were the words that Phaedra Patrick used repetitively when she expressed that Gemma encouraged him to “win her back.” Gemma used those words, and then I was about to type them here. Thankfully, I stopped myself on time. When we think about “a man winning a woman back,” we are implying that a woman is some kind of trophy that needs to be obtained. The situation can be considered the analogy to some sort of competition in which the man works to attain something. Yet a woman is not an object. It is a human being with feelings, emotions, aspirations, flaws, strengths and talents—just like a man. Therefore, I think it is appropriate and fair to express it differently. Words matter. Let’s say that Benedict strongly desired to inspire Estelle to return home. Women are considered the “muses” of men. Can men also inspire women? Yes, it can work both ways. Don’t we want a fair and egalitarian society? Thankfully, the plot aligns well with the idea.

 There is a lot to like and a lot to dislike about Rise and Shine, Benedict Stone.

 I like how Phaedra Patrick digs into the nature of the characters intertwining bits of backstory into the situations of their present. Infertility had caused a lot of stress in the couple. For this reason, Estelle decided to move out for a while to find out if she wanted to stay with Benedict the rest of her life. Phaedra Patrick exposes the heartbreak of not being able to conceive and how it stoked tension and stress in the relationship. After so many years of trying without success Benedict discussed the possibility of adopting a baby. Estelle blatantly opposed the idea. In their discussion I found something I dislike about the story. Estelle treated the process of adoption with contempt. I understand that she did not like adoption as an option and that everybody has a right to make their choices. However, her statements about adoption are disrespectful to those who choose this path. I believe that Phaedra Patrick could have presented another viewpoint to counteract Estelle’s irrational, inappropriate comments about adoption. She never did this.

  Another aspect I did not like about the novel is that there are situations I did not find credible. How did a sixteen-year- old teenager have the money to purchase a plane ticket from England to America? How did she manage to do everything without her father’s knowledge and consent? As far as I know, she did not have a job or a source of income.

 What did I like about the novel? The main characters are well developed. The story takes place in a small English village. I like the pace of the story and how the author connects the present with the past without boring the readers. Moreover, the author blends into the story the significance and history of gemstones, projecting on the reader’s mind a display of colors and shapes that delight the senses and kindle the imagination. I appreciate the quirkiness in connecting them to the themes of the novel. Rise and Shine, Benedict Stone can be considered a light read you may take with you when you are on vacation.

 According to the Encyclopedia Britannica “gemstones have attracted humanity since ancient times and have long been used for jewelry."

It is entertaining and fun to learn about the history and symbolism of the gemstones. For example, lapis lazuli legends are among the oldest in the world. According to the Gem Society the myth of Inanna, the Sumerian goddess of love, and her descent and return from the underworld may date from as early as 4,000 BCE. Inanna entered the underworld wearing a lapis lazuli necklace. Many ancient civilizations valued lapis lazuli, and the stone has religious significance.


  Green aventurine is a type of translucent quartz found in India, China and the state of Vermont in America. The origin of the word is Italian and it means “by chance.” This gemstone is associated with good fortune and abundance.



  Ancient Egyptians worked amethyst into amulets as a form of prayer and protection against harm. St Valentine (third century, Rome) wore an amethyst stone carved with Cupid’s likeness. In Medieval times chaste love was highly valued as true love. Amethyst symbolizes this vision of love because the stone has the power to calm passions and enhance mental clarity.

  


 The themes of Rise and Shine, Benedict Stone offer fountains of hope and optimism. The  novel inspires readers to do the best they can with what they have in life. It is about making choices that help us thrive in the direction we choose, accepting the life we have with inspiration and creativity. It is about being truthful and open to the challenges life throws at us. It is also about the magic and force that exist within the family bonds we cherish and cultivate with patience and wisdom, and the work we can do to make those bonds stronger over time. It is about the importance of choosing and cultivating thoughts and attitudes that support one’s goals and life purpose.

 It is about being unstoppable.



Here's an insightful article on the need to eradicate the stigma around adoption: